Top 10 Barriers to Self-Growth
Change can be scary as we feel new things, entertain different thoughts, perhaps leave old ways behind. Often, resistance to change can rear its ugly head whenever our egos feel threatened by some change in the status quo. This resistance can take many forms, and is sometimes difficult to recognize in ourselves. Here are 10 obstacles that can hinder self-growth.
1. Denial. It’s difficult to grow when you don’t see the need. Listen to the quiet voice inside and to what your loved ones are saying. Get the support you need to see the truth, because ultimately it’s the truth that will set you free.
2. Seeing yourself as a victim. If you’re always one-down, you can’t become the empowered person you are meant to be. Staying trapped as a victim robs you of the opportunity to take charge and change how you react to a situation.
3. Substance abuse. Whether you’re self-medicating with food or alcohol, or seeking escape, the problems just don’t go away without the willingness to face them. In fact, the problem only gets worse, because a new problem is created–like excess weight, or addiction–that takes the focus away from the root cause.
4. Self-loathing. Nothing banishes self-hatred faster than self-care. Choose in any moment the kindest path. If a friend came to you with the same problem, what advice would you give her? Use the same advice for yourself, and do it with love.
5. Blame. If we always point the finger at one another, we never see our own role. Be willing to take responsibility for your part in contributing to the problem.
6. Defensiveness. This is a racket we swing against anything that suggests we might be at fault. Try to see “faults” […]